I'm 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. If this is a surprise to you it is even a bigger surprise to us. Brian and I have always rolled our eyes when couples say, "this was a total woops". Yeah yeah!!!! "Whatever", we thought. Well, we now believe in "woops" babies. This was not planned and totally unexpected. I will spare you the details, but like Brian likes to say, "we came home with an extra souvenir from Disneyland". We are now finally being able to admit to ourselves that we have another little one coming to our family. We are now believing this baby is coming to us for our little Emmi. She has been begging for a little sister since Jack came and ruined her life. We have kept this whole pregnancy a secret from Emmi because once you let her in on something everyone will know about it. We wanted the cerclage to go well and my first ultrasound to be cle...